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When multiple generations of a family live under one roof, it can be a bit more challenging to set priorities and keep on track with goals like retirement or education savings. Having grandparents, grandkids, parents, aunts, uncles or cousins living together can mean balancing different financial needs.

But, of course, there also are many benefits to multiple generations living together. Besides the emotional support that comes with living with loved ones, there’s the added bonus of sharing expenses. Here are some tips for extended families living together so everyone stays financially healthy.

¹ Pew Research Center, , accessed June 2022
² Pew Research Center, , accessed June 2022

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Talk about finances

It can be difficult to talk about money openly, but being proactive about the discussion can help prevent disagreements later. You can start such a discussion by asking each family member to talk about their priorities, including how they can help out financially and how much financial help they might need.��

Grandparents, for instance, might have some chronic health conditions that could require full-time care now or in the near future. Or maybe your kids are headed to college in a few years and need help building their savings. Nothing has to be decided right away or in one discussion, but talking about everyone’s priorities helps open the dialogue.��

While you’re talking about your family members’ priorities, think about your goals and needs, too. Remember that helping to support your parents or other family members financially doesn’t mean you have to sacrifice your own future. Your financial goals and needs are a priority, too, including saving for your retirement.

Of course, there may be competing priorities. Speaking with a financial professional can help you create a plan that balances both current and near-term needs, as well as longer-term goals.

Discuss responsibilities��

As part of the discussion about finances, include some agreement about how to handle expenses, shared or otherwise. Then, you can create a family budget so everyone knows how they fit in.����

One example: An adult child moving back in may need some financial help while paying down debt. They could pitch in by contributing to groceries or utility bills or help out with tasks such as cooking or cleaning. They also may need to work from home and want to upgrade to a more expensive internet package. If it’s not a priority for anyone else, maybe they can pay for the upgrade.��Work out a plan and agree on how everyone can contribute, whether financially or by helping out with tasks.�� ��

Plan for and save for the future��

Many expenses can be planned to some extent. To come up with a plan to cover them, start by listing out near-term expenses and when you’ll need those. Then, start saving money accordingly. The same goes for longer-term goals.��Whether it’s caring for an aging parent, helping to pay for a child’s education, or funding your own retirement, consider how much you might need to reach those goals.

Multigenerational living can come with challenges given the competing interests. But it also can be a case of “better together,” especially when everyone communicates and participates in the plan.